DDating The Modern Cougar

What do cougar women really think about???

If you think older women are a little dated, think again…

Since the dawn of the cougar woman, younger men have been expecting hot cougar sex when dating cougar women.  Now everyone knows that men in general think about sex a lot, and I do mean a lot. On the flip side, have you ever wondered what the modern cougar is thinking?

Consider for a moment if you will, one possible scenario of a typical day in the life of a modern cougar…

It’s a sultry evening, the fan in our cougar’s living room is whirring overhead.  A white T-shirt covers her naked breasts.  Satin knickers hug her supple cheeks.  Tanned legs stretch the length of her couch. She shifts a little and sinks further into the soft leather.  Light flickers from the TV screen in the darkness, licking at her bare skin.

She feels for the remote control that’s resting on her lap.  Her fingers brush against satin, tracing their way along the top of her thigh and come to rest upon cool hard plastic. She lightly presses a button and instantly the channel changes.  Her eyes widen, she tastes a hint of saltiness as she gently bites her bottom lip.  The strong image of the young male news reader appeared to jump out of the screen at her.

As she reaches for the light switch, her long loose waves blow across her face…

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xxx Shele Belle

WHAT YOUNGER MEN LOVE ABOUT COUGAR WOMEN

There’s a lot to love about modern cougar women.  Over the next few posts we’re going to delve into what’s so attractive about cougar women and why younger men can’t get enough of them.

Cougar women know who they are and what they want and consequently, are confident when it comes dating and sex.  This is great for younger men as cougar women are not inclined to play games and waste your time like a younger woman may.  She doesn’t play hard to get, certainly isn’t into making you jealous, and won’t lead you on.  Modern cougar women will cut to the chase and be upfront about her feelings.  It’s a cougar woman’s forthrightness that is a refreshing turn-on for younger men.

Find out what else younger men love about cougar women in my next post.

xxx Shele Belle

HOW TO HAVE SUCCESS WITH COUGAR DATING

It’s unanimous!!!

Younger men agree that to make a good first impression when cougar dating that you should never, ever eat:

• Garlic
• Baked Beans
• Onions
• Chillies

Pretty much anything that makes you belch, fart or invariably stink is off the list of foods that younger men eat in preparation for cougar dating.  How long before should younger men abstain from these foods… I’d give it two days before your big date.  This allows time for your body to get it through your system, leaving no room for any unexpected surprises when cougar dating.

xxx Shele Belle

Cougar Women Here’s Your Chance to Get Inside A Younger Man’s Head & Find Out What They’re Thinking…

I asked younger men to rate the following to find out more about what Cougar Dating means to them.  See their rankings below:

• A one night stand 64.7%

• Short-term fling 72.7%

• Friends with benefits 62.5%

• Long-term relationship 54.2%

A short-term fling has ranked the highest, next to rank is the one-night-stand followed closely with being friends with benefits and lastly came in the long-term relationship.

xxx Shele Belle

Your mission – should you choose to accept it – is to come out as a Modern Cougar Woman.

Why Come Out of the Closet: Flirting with the idea of embarking on your own Cougar Escapades?

There are plenty of older women who find themselves whilst dating younger men.  It’s as though they’ve been swimming in the wrong waters and it’s been pulling their spirits down. It’s not until they give themselves permission to trust their own inner sensibilities that they are able to be free to explore their desires.

Not that cougar dating always runs smooth, especially if one has experienced disappointment or betrayal (in other words, just like most of the adult population who has ventured into relationships) and is somewhat inclined to bump into heaps of emotional baggage along the way to self liberation.

Here’s the curious thing about cougar dating – it’s not passing time as many older men think, it’s a swooping passion akin to first love (something that they may longer experience unless it’s with a much younger woman).  It seems all the more precious when one knows the meaning of loss. That doesn’t necessarily mean that modern cougar women are needy (although what is neediness, other than a longing of unfilled desire), but it does however stop them from taking things for granted.

With cougar dating comes risk; the stakes seem to be higher when you are old enough to know the consequences of your actions. There are other benefits to being older, and hopefully much the wiser: is the inescapable consequence of facing up to yourself.  For it’s at these personal crossroads where one is forced to learn from the mishaps and mistakes of youth, as well as its untamed pleasures, and then take heart in discovering life-changing episodes during one’s thirties and forties which can be a catalyst to finding a truer self identity.

Life can be far too short. So when you find what makes your spirit dance and your heart sing, you mustn’t be scared of it.  To fear your desires is to fear life. And when you fear life, you’re already three parts dead.

xxx Shele Belle

Are you HOT or Are you Not…

This ones for the younger men… find out how cougarized you are when it comes to dating cougar women.  Click on the link below to take part in the survey.

Click here to take survey

xxx Shele Belle

How do you Woo Cougars?  The answer may depend on how you make your demands.

A staggering number of younger men are using social media networks like face book, twitter and online cougar dating sites in a bid to hook up with cougar women and for 90% of these younger men it just isn’t working and they go from one place to another in search of what alludes them – the cougar woman.

This is a classic case of not knowing how to approach cougar women.  What I mean is that it’s all in the way you make your demands.  Sure it’s easy to put yourself out there and make new friends, but when it comes to actually interacting in a way that’s appealing to cougar women, or any woman for that matter, it’s a completely different ball game.

There are two kinds of ways people communicate.  Your either an Asker – like that annoying acquaintance, who has no problem in requesting things – first dates, promotions, pay rises, a discount on that highly overpriced pair of shoes… even if they know that their answer will be a big fat “NO”.  A Guesser on the other hand, takes a more circuitous route – not often making their request unless their absolutely sure that they’re going to get a yes.  And here’s the clincher, by thinking that they’re stealth enough, they can wend their way through the situation in a way that actually works in their favor and offers will be made before they even have to,  you know… ask.   To put it simply, you either ask or you coerce by way of suggestion.

The trouble is that Askers and Guessers are both running into problems when it comes to approaching cougar women.  When an Asker can prompt discussion when it hits at the heart of a cougars day to day interactions, on a deeply understandable level, she responds to him. But when his demands are more like a loaded gun, a cougar woman is sure to reject him.

Guessers can run the gammut from coy remarks to that of a more passive aggressive way to say everything about what you want without saying anything at all.  Either way it’s a recipe for frustration.  And it ruins things with cougar women, as they are being forced by younger men with poor social skills to interact and navigate their way through a minefield of awkward discussions.

The reality of course is that Askers and Guessers need to move fluidly through attracting a cougar women with their opening line into comfortably conversing with cougar women.  After all, the dynamics of everyday interactions demands it.  Askers have to amend their usual knock-em-out cold approach with some behavioral nuance, and Guessers must work at being crystal-clear.  The stakes are high, and the trick is in learning how to read cougar women, as well as the situations that they present to you.

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xxx Shele Belle

CUBS… WHO’S SEXY NOW!

Australian women think that men with facial hair are sexy and that it gives them the edge in the attractiveness stakes.

A study conducted by Schick Men’s Razors and Jigsaw Strategic Research found that 6 in 10 women agreed that men with facial hair have much more sex appeal than their cleaner cut counter parts, showing that women of today will put up with the occasional pash-rash in return for a sexier looking guy.

And a  staggering 75% of men have also declared to sporting facial hair makes them ‘feel’ more attractive to women, with 76% confessing they feel more interesting with well-groomed facial hair, whilst 68% going as far as saying that they think their chin rug gives them more personality!

Maybe considering that 6 in 10 Australian women consider that men with facial hair are more individualistic, stylish and adventurous, and proving that a little effort in the well-manicured facial hair arena goes a long way.

Cubs, do you feel sexier sporting the latest trend in facial hair and does it get you more sex?

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xxx Shele Belle

Real Cougars Know They Are A Great Catch

Miss Cougar Melbourne 2010 Exclusive Interview

I’ve been following Voula Dendrinos on her blog since she hit the headlines after winning the title of Miss Cougar Melbourne earlier this year.  She has successfully woowed younger men with her engaging smile, down to earth Australian demeanour and her steadfast inner calm.

When you peel back this flowers breathtakingly beautiful petals, Voula reveals a core of substance and sharpened sentiment, the very tools that see her embracing all that life has to offer her.

In this cubs and cougar women interview exclusive, Voula shares her inner most thoughts and feelings on:

• What is a Cougar, really.
• Cubs, why they are so great!
• How cougar women feel about being called “A Cougar.”
• The top things that make cougar women attractive to younger men.
• Tips for younger men dating cougar women.
• And her secrets for success.

Click here now to hear Voula’s Interview.

Kiss, kiss…

Shele Belle