DDating The Modern Cougar

There’s nothing like screeching through the narrow streets of Prague in your Volkswagon Golf R, tearing around at top speeds past recognizable landmarks with a hot cougar woman as your co-driver.  But what’s that, I hear you say?  You don’t own a bad ass car, or even have a cougar girlfriend?

Click play on the video to find out how you can have both… the car and the cougar!

Here’s the 2nd installment of Maree’s Cougar Diary….

Another surprise whilst I was up on the gold coast was that I met an 81 year old COUGAR.  That’s right you heard it.  I went out walking very early one morning towards surfers and had lost my way and asked for directions from this very elegant lady.  We started talking and she told me that she was on her was to the casino to meet her man.  I asked her how old he was.  She started to laugh uncontrollably and whispered in my ear “he’s only 51”.   My mouth dropped to my feet.  I gave her the biggest hug and said to her “You’re a COUGAR”… she giggled cheekily and said “yes I am”.  I told her that I am also a COUGAR. We had the best conversation and best giggles and laughs.  She also mentioned that back in her time, that it was a sin to be a COUGAR, but today she’s letting it all hang out.  WOW!!  I asked her why she didn’t date men her age.  She said that they were all very boring and ‘not great in bed’.   Just love her attitude and her love of her life and her freedom to do and be who she wants without judgements.  As we were crossing the road, she grabbed my arm and leaned in and said to me… “don’t ever let other’s judge you…because it is their own stupidity that stops them from embracing their own life the way it’s meant to be…they’re just jealous”.

That same morning I also met up with another friend of mine who lives on the gold coast and works as a stripper.  I popped into his place for a coffee.  We chatted for a while.  And he again said to me, that the younger boys all say the same thing.  That COUGARS are so much easier to talk to.  We have no hang ups.  We are in control of our wants and needs.  And the biggest one of all is that, we are not shy in the bedroom and allow ourselves to evolve and escape in the moment of passion.  We are not afraid to take control nor do we take control off them.  We are fun spontaneous cheeky and go with the flow.   Oh and let’s not forget, we are not clingy nor jealous.  Having said all that, as a COUGAR I find the same with the younger boys, hence why we seem to attract each other.  And yes had the craziest sex with my muscly gorgeous 25 year old stripper guy who new exactly which buttons to push and how to push them.  The passion was taken everywhere from the dining table, coffee table, kitchen bench tops, the staircase, the lounge room floor through to the bed and finally in the shower.  What I love the most about young muscly guys is that they can lift me up with no effort or struggle and pull me in without me holding on.   His stamina, energy and craziness of just devouring me in every which way, just keeps bringing back those tingles.

Keep your eye out for part 3 coming real soon!!!

xxx Shele Belle

How do you Woo Cougars?  The answer may depend on how you make your demands.

A staggering number of younger men are using social media networks like face book, twitter and online cougar dating sites in a bid to hook up with cougar women and for 90% of these younger men it just isn’t working and they go from one place to another in search of what alludes them – the cougar woman.

This is a classic case of not knowing how to approach cougar women.  What I mean is that it’s all in the way you make your demands.  Sure it’s easy to put yourself out there and make new friends, but when it comes to actually interacting in a way that’s appealing to cougar women, or any woman for that matter, it’s a completely different ball game.

There are two kinds of ways people communicate.  Your either an Asker – like that annoying acquaintance, who has no problem in requesting things – first dates, promotions, pay rises, a discount on that highly overpriced pair of shoes… even if they know that their answer will be a big fat “NO”.  A Guesser on the other hand, takes a more circuitous route – not often making their request unless their absolutely sure that they’re going to get a yes.  And here’s the clincher, by thinking that they’re stealth enough, they can wend their way through the situation in a way that actually works in their favor and offers will be made before they even have to,  you know… ask.   To put it simply, you either ask or you coerce by way of suggestion.

The trouble is that Askers and Guessers are both running into problems when it comes to approaching cougar women.  When an Asker can prompt discussion when it hits at the heart of a cougars day to day interactions, on a deeply understandable level, she responds to him. But when his demands are more like a loaded gun, a cougar woman is sure to reject him.

Guessers can run the gammut from coy remarks to that of a more passive aggressive way to say everything about what you want without saying anything at all.  Either way it’s a recipe for frustration.  And it ruins things with cougar women, as they are being forced by younger men with poor social skills to interact and navigate their way through a minefield of awkward discussions.

The reality of course is that Askers and Guessers need to move fluidly through attracting a cougar women with their opening line into comfortably conversing with cougar women.  After all, the dynamics of everyday interactions demands it.  Askers have to amend their usual knock-em-out cold approach with some behavioral nuance, and Guessers must work at being crystal-clear.  The stakes are high, and the trick is in learning how to read cougar women, as well as the situations that they present to you.

To find out how to play it safe and woo cougars click here now.

xxx Shele Belle

WHAT MAKES A COUGAR WOMAN A COUGAR!

…Grabbing men’s butts in bars, throwing their leg over a man’s shoulder in public to demonstrate their “flexibility” and acting out like junior high school girls is not why younger men are drawn to older women. Treating men like sex objects in an effort to “be equal” to men who have treated women like sex objects for so long does not raise our bar. It lowers it to the same level of base behavior that we detest.

Younger men who have experience dating older women know that this is not true Cougar behavior and in no minced words, they let me know how disgusted…yes, disgusted…they are that this is the way Cougars are being portrayed by the media. It gives all women a bad label and makes women who are on the fence about becoming a Cougar feel that this stereotype is how they must behave in order to fit the profile. I see women in public “trying” to be a Cougar. It is obvious they are trying because they don’t look comfortable in the (animal print) skin they are wearing. Some of them even try to dumb down to the level of younger men by being trendy, talking hip and using the same lingo instead of having the man up his game and elevating him to her level. It doesn’t look good on them and it isn’t working.

A younger man who is really sincere about meeting and dating Cougar women do so because mature women are not like the twenty somethings he is used to meeting. These men are bored with girls who play games, only talk about themselves/hair/makeup and whine, and have no perspective on life. A true Cougar woman embodies years of self development, learning, perspective, wisdom and all the things that it takes to make a woman of any age well rounded.

This is an excerpt from Dr. Fayr Barkley’s Article, you can read it in full by clicking on the link below.

Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Dr._Fayr_Barkley,_Ph.D.

Kiss, kiss…

Shele Belle

How Younger Men Can Attract Cougar Women

To get the edge on dating a cougar woman have a look at the video below for some tips on how to attract cougar women.  For cougar dating using these tips click here.

Kiss, Kiss…

Shele Belle

There comes a time in every Cougars life when she’s just got to bite the bullet and put herself out there. The first step may not be so elegant, but hey a cougar woman’s got to start somewhere.  This trailer from Cougar Town says it all…

The Latest News from Rich Gosse on Cougar Events World Wide.

YOUNGER men are a turn-on for Aussie women, with many revealing in a new survey that even a 10-year age gap wouldn’t stop them from dating a guy.

When quizzed by Prevention magazine, 55 per cent of women said they had dated a younger man.

And some believe their own older age may even may be helping them in the love department.

Of the 1100-odd respondents, aged between 40 and 65, one quarter said they felt more sexually confident now than 20 years ago.

Sixty one per cent believed the image of the cougar (a woman dating a younger man) is harmless, while 10 per cent embraced it.

And not even a decade’s difference was a turn off for 40 per cent, who said they’d go out with a beau 10 years their junior.

Slightly more – 60 per cent – preferred a five-year age gap.

And the appealing qualities of the younger man?

you’ll find out  the answer by clicking on the link below

http://www.news.com.au/couriermail/story/0,,26738882-23272,00.html

Please leave your comments in the box below, and let me know how you personally feel about this new wave of feminine sexuality that is taking the world by storm…

Kiss, Kiss

Shele Belle

COUGAR CONVENTION BRISBANE HIGHLIGHTS

Cougars are renouned for their dating prowess, and when they see ‘that cub’ they are not shy in coming foward.  Unlike their counterparts, the younger woman; the cougar woman has freed herself from outdated sexual concepts to embrace her sexuality.  Spend at least 5 minutes in conversation with acougar and you’ll be surprised by her vigorous intellect, her amazing satisfaction with life and her profound joy when her self-expression is received in the right way.

The Cougar Convention in Brisbane was the perfect platform for cougar women to publically make their debut and be proud of who they are.

Take a peek into the cougar women dating revolution with Ann, by clicking play on the audio.

Kiss, kiss…

Shele Belle