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HOT TIPS FOR DATING COUGAR WOMEN

As you can see from the statistics below, many younger men have not met and dated cougar women online.

No 66.7%

Yes, we met online but never dated. 11.9%

Yes, we’ve met and dated. 21.4%

It really is easier than you think. By following these tips you’ll be on your way to dating cougar women online.

1. Catch her eye. With an overwhelming number of profiles out there on the web, the first thing you need to do is be seen.
2. Give her a reason to want to date you.  It really does come down to who a cougar is going to choose. And you do want her to choose you, right?
3. Follow through.  This step is vital. Do it sooner rather than later or she’ll have moved on to someone else.

To find out more about dating cougar women click here now.

xxx Shele Belle

COUGARS ARE SEXY!!!

I posed the question to younger men recently “At what age do women get sexier?”  click play on the video to find out how cougar women scored.

xxx Shele belle

How Sweet it is to Be a Cougar…

The results are in for the Aussie Cougar Women Survey about Cougar Dating.  And what an eye opener it has been with both men and women sharing their thoughts.  The men who volunteered to participate even tho the survey clearly stated that it was for cougar women only are the men in society who are still holding onto the myths surrounding cougars and just couldn’t help but tell me so.  It has come as no surprise that these men feel threatened by a cougar woman’s sexuality to the point where offensive and degrading remarks were made in a bid to corrupt the survey.

Their behavior, however, has highlighted why so many of Australia’s cougars are keeping their cougar status private and beyond the prying eyes of men such as these.

It’s about time that aussie men who feel sexually powerless stop inflicting their unwanted prejudiced attitudes upon people who are just not interested in hearing their narrow minded limited rantings. Oh and Cougars, you never know, you just might be able to kick ass and teach some of these old dogs new tricks when they unexpectedly jump out from behind the nearest bush to ambush you… integrity, respect and most importantly how to live life to the max on your own terms.

xxx Shele Belle

What do Aussie Cougar Women want?

Aussie Cougars are a whirlwind of Sass & Style.

Take part in the survey

Click on this link here now.

xxx Shele Belle

Your mission – should you choose to accept it – is to come out as a Modern Cougar Woman.

Why Come Out of the Closet: Flirting with the idea of embarking on your own Cougar Escapades?

There are plenty of older women who find themselves whilst dating younger men.  It’s as though they’ve been swimming in the wrong waters and it’s been pulling their spirits down. It’s not until they give themselves permission to trust their own inner sensibilities that they are able to be free to explore their desires.

Not that cougar dating always runs smooth, especially if one has experienced disappointment or betrayal (in other words, just like most of the adult population who has ventured into relationships) and is somewhat inclined to bump into heaps of emotional baggage along the way to self liberation.

Here’s the curious thing about cougar dating – it’s not passing time as many older men think, it’s a swooping passion akin to first love (something that they may longer experience unless it’s with a much younger woman).  It seems all the more precious when one knows the meaning of loss. That doesn’t necessarily mean that modern cougar women are needy (although what is neediness, other than a longing of unfilled desire), but it does however stop them from taking things for granted.

With cougar dating comes risk; the stakes seem to be higher when you are old enough to know the consequences of your actions. There are other benefits to being older, and hopefully much the wiser: is the inescapable consequence of facing up to yourself.  For it’s at these personal crossroads where one is forced to learn from the mishaps and mistakes of youth, as well as its untamed pleasures, and then take heart in discovering life-changing episodes during one’s thirties and forties which can be a catalyst to finding a truer self identity.

Life can be far too short. So when you find what makes your spirit dance and your heart sing, you mustn’t be scared of it.  To fear your desires is to fear life. And when you fear life, you’re already three parts dead.

xxx Shele Belle

There’s nothing like screeching through the narrow streets of Prague in your Volkswagon Golf R, tearing around at top speeds past recognizable landmarks with a hot cougar woman as your co-driver.  But what’s that, I hear you say?  You don’t own a bad ass car, or even have a cougar girlfriend?

Click play on the video to find out how you can have both… the car and the cougar!

Here’s the 2nd installment of Maree’s Cougar Diary….

Another surprise whilst I was up on the gold coast was that I met an 81 year old COUGAR.  That’s right you heard it.  I went out walking very early one morning towards surfers and had lost my way and asked for directions from this very elegant lady.  We started talking and she told me that she was on her was to the casino to meet her man.  I asked her how old he was.  She started to laugh uncontrollably and whispered in my ear “he’s only 51”.   My mouth dropped to my feet.  I gave her the biggest hug and said to her “You’re a COUGAR”… she giggled cheekily and said “yes I am”.  I told her that I am also a COUGAR. We had the best conversation and best giggles and laughs.  She also mentioned that back in her time, that it was a sin to be a COUGAR, but today she’s letting it all hang out.  WOW!!  I asked her why she didn’t date men her age.  She said that they were all very boring and ‘not great in bed’.   Just love her attitude and her love of her life and her freedom to do and be who she wants without judgements.  As we were crossing the road, she grabbed my arm and leaned in and said to me… “don’t ever let other’s judge you…because it is their own stupidity that stops them from embracing their own life the way it’s meant to be…they’re just jealous”.

That same morning I also met up with another friend of mine who lives on the gold coast and works as a stripper.  I popped into his place for a coffee.  We chatted for a while.  And he again said to me, that the younger boys all say the same thing.  That COUGARS are so much easier to talk to.  We have no hang ups.  We are in control of our wants and needs.  And the biggest one of all is that, we are not shy in the bedroom and allow ourselves to evolve and escape in the moment of passion.  We are not afraid to take control nor do we take control off them.  We are fun spontaneous cheeky and go with the flow.   Oh and let’s not forget, we are not clingy nor jealous.  Having said all that, as a COUGAR I find the same with the younger boys, hence why we seem to attract each other.  And yes had the craziest sex with my muscly gorgeous 25 year old stripper guy who new exactly which buttons to push and how to push them.  The passion was taken everywhere from the dining table, coffee table, kitchen bench tops, the staircase, the lounge room floor through to the bed and finally in the shower.  What I love the most about young muscly guys is that they can lift me up with no effort or struggle and pull me in without me holding on.   His stamina, energy and craziness of just devouring me in every which way, just keeps bringing back those tingles.

Keep your eye out for part 3 coming real soon!!!

xxx Shele Belle

Yes… oh yes! Cougar Power Rules!!!

Click play on the video below and find out what makes cougar women tick.

xxx Shele Belle

Today, I have a guest writer for you who is sharing some simple yet effective tips for the younger man to attract a cougar woman.

1. Don’t be Afraid to Ask

If you are unsure about whether an older woman may be interested in dating a younger man – try a polite, harmless but very obvious flirt. At the very worse, the likelihood is she will be really flattered by the attention. With any luck, you may find it more successful than you ever imagined it could be.

2. Chose your Location

Try and socialise in bars and clubs where there is a mixed crowd in terms of age.

Then you will feel more at ease and still have plenty of opportunity of meeting the cougar of your dreams. Trendy bars that are only populated by 20-something hipsters may put her off.

3. Advertise Yourself

There are sites out there that cater for cougars and cubs – join one. Make sure you include a flattering but recognisable photo and add some details that outline your interests and personality. Come across as a genuine, honest and likeable guy and you will have the cougars queuing up.

4. Underplay the Age Gap

Never make a big issue about the age gap. It is probably not something she wants to be reminded of too often, so leave that subject well alone and concentrate on the things you do have in common.

5. Be Willing to Learn

An older woman may well have a good deal of experience in the bedroom and know exactly what she likes. There is no harm in asking for directions – she may want you to take the lead but then again she may have so much more attracted to you, if you can demonstrate that you are really interested in her needs.

6. Return the Compliment

She could well be thrilled to have a fit, younger man and let you know it. Do remember to repay any compliments – the hotter she feels the better it is for both of you. Also, do be sensitive to the fact she might need a little extra reassurance.

7. Show Some Sophistication

A cougar can be attracted to younger men but may not love all the habits that might come with them. Show your best side – grubby sweatpants and scruffy t-shirts may be a turn-off to a classy cougar. Designer suits aren’t necessary but do make sure you look good and smell great – a sexy, sophisticated, older woman may not be prepared to slum it!

by Oliver Jameson,  founder of the free dating site for cougars, http://www.cougared.com

Are you HOT or Are you Not…

This ones for the younger men… find out how cougarized you are when it comes to dating cougar women.  Click on the link below to take part in the survey.

Click here to take survey

xxx Shele Belle